Monday, April 27, 2009

miserable? Turn to Him


Dearest Biskut Meri and friends..

Today, a friend that is very dear to me came crying and said that she needed someone to talk. I didn’t have so much to offer but i tried to be a good listener. She said that she felt soo miserable, with herself.. in her study, in managing her time, with her loved ones and everything just went out of kilter. And she just can’t help herself from feeling agitated, and worried, and distressed, as if she did something BIG which is wrong and her life became all messed up..

Snap! erm.. I think I often feel the same too! honestly. and i know that when i feel that way, i must have done something wrong. because we are human beings, we do mistakes every day. we cant deny that. there are so many sins we have committed, knowingly and unknowingly. these dreadful sins which has brought us further away from Him, making us feel so tense and disconcerted.

so, we MUST! we must turn to Him, ask for His forgiveness, for every little mistakes we have done, disobeyed Him or we didnt remember Him most of the times.. because we never know which little mistake we did which has brought to His displeasure.

astaghfirullah..forgive us ya Allah..

about seeking His forgiveness, Kak Dz once shared with us about this verse Allah has mentioned in the Quran,

And those who, having done something to be ashamed of, or wronged their own souls, earnestly bring Allah to mind, and ask for forgiveness for their sins, and who can forgive sins except Allah. and are never obstinate in persisting knowingly in (the wrong) they have done [ali Imran :135]

do you know, when Allah sent down this ayat, the Iblis cried. really. They cried! want to know why? Because Allah offers forgiveness to those who repent. So there will be less and less people who follow their steps. after all their hardship to get us to their way disobeying Allah, and suddenly we repent and Allah forgives us, their hard works will be all worthless.

i remember the story kak Dz told us, when Allah created nabi Adam, Allah ordered the angels to prostrate to Adam and Iblis was living with the angels, so he, also, was ordered to prostrate to Adam. The angels prostrated to Adam because all the angels are obedient, they do not disobey Allah. Iblis, however, was arrogant. He objected to Allah. Iblis said, "I was created from fire, and he was only created from soil, so why should I prostrate to him? I will not." then Allah ordered Iblis again, several times. but Iblis was still arrogant.

wait, do you realize something? Allah asked Iblis several times. Several times! what is the significance when Allah did that? think.

it shows that, Allah has given chances to Iblis. several chances so that Iblis would prostrate. But Iblis was just too arrogant. even to that arrogant Iblis Allah has given sooo many opportunities. same goes to us. Allah always gives chances for us to repent, after so many wrongdoings we have done. Do we really want to be like Iblis? Of course No!

i have a friend who likes this quote, "no turning back". Yeah, he's right. we cant go back to the past and undo what we've done. What can we do then?

Repentance! Absolutely.

"Ask forgiveness from your Lord, then turn towards Him in repentance; he will loosen the sky over you in abundance, and He will add strength unto your strength." (Hud 11:52)

Ya Allah, You are indeed the most forgiving, for these earthful of sins..You gave us a U-turn! a U-turn for us when we got into the wrong way. we can actually go to the right path again.

do we realize that Allah gave us so many chances for us to change, seek for His forgiveness, every time we disobeyed Him. He did not punish us straight away. we never got struck by lightning, hadnt you noticed? He gave us more and mor
e blessings instead. Oh, I can still wake up this morning, still breathing in His oxygen, and yet i did not even care how many wrongs i have done, and so many good deeds i have not done. ya Allah, what kind of servant am i? T.T

ya Allah, we did injustice to ourselves. So if You do not forgive us and You do not have mercy on us, we would be losers [al-a'raf:34]

That is the do'a of Adam and Hawa. They repented and Allah accepted their repentance.. Allah is Most Forgiving, and He loves forgiveness

there is one hadith about seeking forgiveness from Allah, please read every word ok?

From Anas, radiyallahu 'anhu, who said: I heard the Messenger of Allah, sallallahu 'alayhi wasallam, say

"Allah the Almighty has said: 'O son of Adam, so long as you call upon Me, and hope in Me, I shall forgive you for what you have done, and I shall not mind. O son of Adam, were your sins to reach the clouds in the sky and were you then to ask forgiveness of Me, I shall forgive you. O son of Adam, were you to come to Me with an earthful of sins and were you then to face Me, without having associated anything with Me, I shall grant you an earthful of pardon.” [riwayat at-tarmizi]

sins reaching the clouds in the sky..and earthful of pardon.. Oh, I feel like crying now. this is truly a beautiful hadith. really. VERY touching. Can you feel it too? Ya Allah, You are indeed Al-Ghaffur, the most forgiving. T.T

nevertheless, repentance does not mean asking for Allah's forgiveness and then continue sinning. That is not repentance. NO. that is making fun of Allah. when we are totally aware that our acts are disregarding His instructions, but we think that we can ask for forgiveness later on, and yet we still doing it, that is totally making fun of Allah. what if we die before we could ask His pardon? na'uzubillah min zalik.

Sin is like a small plant. In the beginning you can pluck it out of the ground easily, otherwise the roots will go deep into the solid and it will be difficult to pluck it out of the ground. If we repent and ask for forgiveness immediately, then it is good, otherwise sinning becomes a habit and it may be too late to ask for forgiveness.

but! in order to repent, we MUST immediately stop doing the sinful act, stop now. not tomorrow. now. promise not to repeat the same mistake again and make firm resolution that in future we will desist from committing such sins. remember, Allah knows.. every single things that we do. and all will be written. our eyes, things that we are not supposed to see, listen to what we're not supposed to listen, our mouth, where at all times can never stop saying bad things, and our hands! Which so many times copying answers during the tests or exams? Oops. -_-! although we can hide it from other people, Allah knows..

Back to my friend, it is very lucky for her because when she felt that way, she realized that she needs to be more closer to Him. it shows that Allah still loves her and gives her a chance to turn back to Him.

Ya Allah.. The most kind, The most merciful, please forgive her and make her life become more peaceful and calm. Ameen

Turn to Allah - Islamic poetry (from

When you have a terrible day
You just want to scream
just turn to Allah

When your feeling so down
you have lost all hope
just turn Allah

when your feeling betrayed
you just want to curse
just turn to Allah

when you can't see a way out
of a terrible situation
just turn to Allah

when your feeling like
you have no self esteem
just turn to Allah

when your feeling all OK and
the world is at your feet
just remember not to forget Allah
you can then be certain He will remember you !

striving for happy ending full barakah,

Thursday, April 23, 2009

Forgiving others


Dearest biskut meri and friends..

This is a story about forgiving others.. which was shared yesterday by our beloved kak dz during our usrah with geng permata. Ehem~

Once upon a time, our beloved prophet , The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) was seated in a gathering with the Sahabat. (sahabat – sahabat were always near to the prophet as they wanted to learn from him) then suddenly Rasulullah looked towards the entrance and said, “A man of Paradise is coming.” And everyone was eager to see who it was.

At that instance someone who seemed to be very ordinary entered the mosque where they were seated. His beard was wet and nothing special about him. he was just .. ordinary. The next day, the prophet said the same thing “A man of Paradise is coming” and later entered the same guy. And same goes to the next day.

One sahabat (Abdullah ibn Umar) was really curious as the prophet said this, so he followed the man to his house. Abdullah told the man that he was a traveler and stayed as a guest. Abdullah wanted to see what was the secret as this guy is guaranteed to enter paradise. But for three days Abdullah saw nothing unusual, so he finally told the man what the Prophet had said and asked him what was so special about him. The man thought for a long time and said “I didn’t do anything. what you saw from me, that is me”. Abdullah became frustrated and as he walked away from the house, the guy stopped him and said,

“There might be one thing — I never have any grudge with anyone. Before going to sleep every night I forgive everyone and sleep with a clean heart."


a very nice story right? No wonder this guy is guaranteed for Paradise! How pure and clean a heart he had. As I looked at mine, I can see this one big, deep, ugly scar from an empty space left by a piece of my heart that i once gave to someone. And I can feel it is still hurting inside. And I think this heart of mine is now so black and tarnished, full with ceaseless revenge. Oh my.. T.T

Well, I did realized something. From that ugly scar, I become much stronger and I learned a lot through my mistakes. Maybe one of the reasons why Allah tested me on this is that I will have more patience, and He will reward me afterwards as Allah has promised that,

"And We will surely test you with something of fear and hunger and loss of wealth and lives and fruits, but give glad tidings to the patient." (Al-Baqarah 2:155)

Sometimes, we lost something we wanted, or we lost someone we love, and sometimes we felt beaten in life, and people hurt us beyond reason, broke promises, sliced our hearts into pieces… but hey! Pause! what did Allah promised us if we have patience? Of course, GLAD TIDINGS! ..but give glad tidings to the patient. Remember?

Oh, I will try to keep this advice close to my heart, insyaAllah. I will. And you should too, my friends :)


And do you know something else too? kak Dz said.. Allah will give reward to the ones who always forgiving. Want to know what it is?.. It is a gigantic, magnificent, astounding mansion on a beautiful, green hill in the Paradise! can you imagine? A superb castle in the paradise made special by Allah for us! For us, if we’re forgiving. Not easy eh?

picture: cinderella's castle

Uuu.. ok now im getting excited ^_^ do you feel the same too?? huhu, from now on, Lets try to be more patient, and try to forgive everyone we know. I have to admit, that’s a haaard thing to do. really. especially for people who get angry so easily. like me. Almost impossible I guess. but like cik Lebah said.. don’t try, we HAVE TO! Uhuk.. thanks to cik lebah.. that words stung like a bee. aiyak

These are what Allah said about the people who forgives,

"Those who control their anger and are forgiving towards people; Allah loves the good." (Ali-Imran, 3: 134)

"Pardon them and overlook - Allah loves those who do good" (al-Maidah :13)

Look at your hearts too, my friends. Got any scar? If yes, Thanks to Allah for allowing the scars to be there, as it is a sign that His Glad tidings are underway towards you! Alhamdulillah..

And lastly, to my dear friends... Sometimes we didn’t realize we do mistakes and there might be people who have feeling of resentment on us too. somewhere out there yet we didn’t know. hopefully by forgiving others, Allah will forgive us too. We surely want His forgiveness right? and don’t forget. A perfect, beautiful mansion as a reward as well. Hee

Off topic:

To biskut meri, this life.. is just a test from Allah to see which of us are best in our conduct. We’re human beings.. and human do mistakes. Yes, we do mistakes! But from that, we learn and take heed. That’s why we have each other. to keep reminding. and thats why we have biskut meri! At least we have some effort to improve ourselves. Don’t let other people make you down. People only judge from what they see. Only Allah knows what we’ve been through. Only He knows how much effort we’ve put in seeking His pleasure. Let Allah do all the judging. Ok? Smile :)

Ya ALLAH, please.. give us strength.. please make us, among those who rely on You, from those who You consider successful, and place us among those who are near to you, by Your favor, O goal of the seekers. Ameen.

Wednesday, April 22, 2009

epi besday wani mira 220409 ;)

Selamat Hari Lahir!! sweeeeeeeeeeet 20 ;P
may allah bless you in every steps in your life..
a new baby born~~
22nd of April 2009

Monday, April 20, 2009

jom layan!

gusalam geng2 sume..

jom layan lagu2 ungu..

dr album "aku dan Tuhanku"...

sume lagu dlm album tu sgt bermakna...

mengingatkan balik sape diri kita yg sebenar..

hanya lah hamba Allah yg hdup di dunia pinjaman Nya..

mari mencuba!

Bersedia dengan kalkulator anda!!
ikuti arahan satu persatu sehingga selesai..
selamat mencuba!

1.Mula-mula, tetapkan dalam seminggu berapa kali anda ingin mengaji Al Quran.
2. Darabkan dengan 2
3. Tambah 5
4. Darabkan dengan 50
5. Jika tarikh lahir anda tahun ini sudah lepas,
tambah 1759 sebaliknya tambah 1758 jika ianya belum lepas
6. Kiraan terakhir: Tolak tahun anda dilahirkan (contoh.: 1941, 1973, dsb.).

Jumlah anda sekarang dalam tiga @ empat digit nombor.

Digit pertama dari 3 digit tersebut @ digit pertama dan kedua dari 4 digit tersebut:

Adalah jumlah nombor yang anda ingin mengaji dalam seminggu
Sekarang yang paling cool !!!
2 digit terakhir memberitahu anda …
UMUR anda!!! =)

adapted + edited from: fren's blog

yeay!~ thnx angahbaek!


hip2 hurry~~

blog nih dah update!~

ade lagu dah...hehehe..

btw thnx for visit0rs yng melawat geng boskut meri disini~

Sunday, April 19, 2009

Malu? Akhlak Buruk?

"Malu itu sebahagian dari iman,
Iman itu tempatnya di syurga.

Akhlak buruk itu sebahagian dari kekerasan hati,
Kekerasan hati itu sebahagian dari neraka."

*quoted from may, during last week's usrah..

Saturday, April 18, 2009

Its raining!


dearest biskut meri and friends..

lets talk about rain~ hee

Its raining
Its pouring
The old man is snoring..
He went to bed, and bumped his head
And couldn’t get up in the morning

[nursery rhymes]

-I like to sing this song when I was little. :)
why.. why all become so lazy and sleepy when its raining huh?

Its raining now. I just love when its raining. Its so romantic. Don’t you think so? Its like when I listen to the sound of the raindrops it can just wash away all the pain. Like listening to a beautiful song. Chewah. Anyway, rain is indeed one of Allah’s greatest blessings in life. It’s a symbol of growth. And fertilization. It is very very important to all living things as mentioned by Allah in various verses from the Quran,

"And We send down from the sky rain charted with blessing, and
We produce therewith gardens and Grain for harvests"


Hadnt we noticed? all those beautiful gardens, trees and flowers grow beautifully from the same water given by Allah. and from that we get our food and drinks. this is definitely the signs of Allah's love to us. Alhamdulillah.. Thank you Allah! :D

So do you like rain? I wonder why there are people who don’t like rain. how anyone could get unhappy over such a beautiful blessing from Allah? Rain is a miracle, mercy by Allah, for us. Subhanallah.. Allah has said that,

“He it is Who sends down water (rain) from the sky, from it you drink and from it grows the vegetation on which you send your cattle to pasture. With it He causes to grow for you crops, the olives, date palms, grapes and every kind of fruit. Verily! In this is indeed a Sign (of the Divine existence and providence) for people who give thought” (an-nahl :10-11)

"And Allah sends down rain from the skies, and gives therewith life to the earth after its death; verily in this is a Sign for those who listen."

Do we belong to those who give thought? And those who listen? Hmm..

Ya Allah, please don’t let our hearts become so black and corrupted that the most obvious of Allah's Mercy on us goes unnoticed.

How sad a heart that must be.

And.. do you know that when its raining.. its one of the special times that our do’a are most likely to be answered. What are we waiting for? Lets pray!

Our beloved Prophet Muhammad (peace & blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Two are the du’as that are never rejected: the du’a made when the prayer is being called, and at the time of rainfall.” (Abu Dawud).

Supplication for rain:

During rainfall:

O Allaah, send upon us helpful, wholesome and healthy rain, beneficial not harmful rain, now, not later.

After rainfall:

It has rained by the bounty of Allah and His mercy

Open your window, focus on your senses. Watch the raindrops as they create puddles, listen to the different tones. Take a deeeep breath, feel the freshness of the air that only a fresh rainfall can give. oh I cant wait to smell the fresh air after this... and a beautiful rainbow! hopefully.

Don’t go to sleep! You might get your head bumped! huhu.

Allah's creation. how beautiful. masyaAllah

yang mengejar happy ending full barakah,

aku mau sekolah bu!

smlm kitorg wt muvinite n tgok cite woo smpai ade yg nangis, kitorg nk suggest la korg2 yg bc blog ni tuk layan cite ni gak,klu xnak lyn cite boleh beli buku (by Andrea Hirata).

Cite nya cmni....

kisah awalnya adalah biasa saja, kisah 10 org budak tapi cuma lebih menumpukan pada 3 org watak utama iaitu Lintang, Mahar dan Ikal selain guru besar dan ibu muslimah. cerita mengenai mahar yg mengendong radio sepanjang masa. menjemur bateri setiap kali sudah tidak boleh digunakan tapi disebaliknya beliau adalah seorang karyawan, ahli seni yg sangat kreatif. Manakala(btol ke?) Ikal pula yg terpikat pada seorang amoi cina kerana ada kuku yg kononnya “paling cantik” didunia. menghabiskan kapur bilik darjah dan memberikannya pada harun(seorg knak2 yg istimewa) utk bermain dengan kapur semata2 utk menjadi runner utk membeli kapur dari amoi berkuku kilat. dan watak yg paling disukai oleh aku ialah Lintang. seorang budak yg menaiki basikal berejam utk pergi kesekolah. berotak sangat bijak dan genius.Di puncak filem ini.. klimaks nya.. adalah sangat menyentuh perasaan.. aku sangat sebak, terdiam dan bersyukur serta hairannn.. pulangnya lintang selepas memenangi pertandingan apa tah.. duga akal ke apa tah.. pulang kerumah.. dan bapanya sudah meninggal dunia, mungkin jatuh kedalam laut. tah la.. dan tanpa ibu.. lintang waktu tu terpaksa berhenti sekolah utk menjaga adik-adiknya. -the end-

Laskar Pelangi (rainbow soldiers)

mimpi adalah kunci
untuk kita menakhlukkan dunia
berlarilah tanpa lelah
sampai engkau meraihnya

laskar pelangi
tak kan terikat waktu
bebaskan mimpimu di angkasa
warnai bintang di jiwa

menarilah dan terus tertawa
walau dunia tak seindah surga
bersyukurlah pada Yang Kuasa
cinta kita di dunia

cinta kepada hidup
memberikan senyuman abadi
walau hidup kadang tak adil
tapi cinta lengkapi kita

laskar pelangi
tak kan terikat waktu
jangan berhenti mewarnai
jutaan mimpi di bumi

menarilah dan terus tertawa
walau dunia tak seindah surga
bersyukurlah pada Yang Kuasa
cinta kita di dunia

menarilah dan terus tertawa
walau dunia tak seindah surga
bersyukurlah pada Yang Kuasa
cinta kita di dunia

by nidji

p/s-jln cerita dlm novel lg detail compare 2 muvi.sape2 yg nak soft copy novel ni ,just leave ur email kt bhgian comment.

Friday, April 17, 2009



better late than never??? xmungkin~~~~~

cry2222 until u dying meh? nothing change...

make sure u take a lesson!!!

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

Di saat aku di uji~

Assalamualaikum.. my dearies friend~~

minggu nh wayar kepale aku terputus...

aku lalai dengan kepade mu ya Allah dan aku xbersungguh2 menghadapmu ya allah..astarfirullah hal aziem.. ya allah ampunkan lah doseku dan dose2 mereke yg lalai kepade mu ya allah..


"Apakah manusia itu mengira bahawa mereka
dibiarkan saja mengatakan; "Kami telah beriman,"
sedangkan mereka tidak diuji? Dan sesungguhnya
kami telah menguji org2 yg sebelum mereka, maka
sesungguhnya Allah mengetahui org2 yg benar
dan sesungguhnya Dia mengetahui org2 yg
dusta." -Surah Al-Ankabut ayat 2-3


"Boleh jadi kamu membenci sesuatu padahal ia
amat baik bagimu, dan boleh jadi pula kamu
menyukai sesuatu, padahal ia amat buruk bagimu,
Allah mengetahui sedang kamu tidak mengetahui." -
Surah Al-Baqarah ayat 216


"Allah tidak membebani seseorang itu melainkan
sesuai dengan kesanggupannya." -Surah Al-
Baqarah ayat 286


"Janganlah kamu bersikap lemah, dan janganlah
pula kamu bersedih hati, padahal kamulah org2 yg
paling tinggi darjatnya, jika kamu orang-orang yg
beriman." - Surah Al-Imran ayat 139


"Wahai orang-orang yang beriman! Bersabarlah
kamu (menghadapi segala kesukaran dalam
mengerjakan perkara-perkara yang berkebajikan),
dan kuatkanlah kesabaran kamu lebih daripada
kesabaran musuh, di medan perjuangan), dan
bersedialah (dengan
kekuatan pertahanan di daerah-daerah sempadan)
serta bertaqwalah kamu kepada Allah supaya,
kamu berjaya (mencapai kemenangan)." -Surah Al-
Imran ayat 200

"Dan mintalah pertolongan (kepada Allah) dengan
jalan sabar dan mengerjakan sembahyang; dan
sesungguhnya sembahyang itu amatlah berat
kecuali kepada orang-orang yang khusyuk" -Surah
Al-Baqarah ayat 45


"Sesungguhnya Allah telah membeli dr org2
mu’min, diri, harta mereka dengan memberikan
syurga utk mereka… ..

-Surah At-Taubah ayat 111


"Cukuplah Allah bagiku, tidak ada Tuhan selain
drNya. Hanya kepadaNya aku bertawakkal." -
Surah At-Taubah ayat 129


"… ..dan jgnlah kamu berputus asa drp rahmat
Allah. Sesungguhnya tiada berputus asa dari
rahmat Allah melainkan kaum yg kafir."
-Surah Yusuf ayat 12

"Ya allah, aku hambamu yang lemah. aku mohon dengan sungguh2 ya allah..Ya Allah, janganlah Kau pesongkan hatiku setelah Engkau beri hidayah dan petunjuk padaku....tunjukkanlah aku jalan yg benar, jalan org2 yg Kau beri rahmat,bukan jalan yg Kau murkai dan bukan jua jalan yg sesat"..amin~~

kau dan aku berbeza


sblom ak meng'share' seminimum mungkin ape yg ad dlm kepala otak ak ni,mula2 ak nk ckp gomenne(i'm sori) kalu darjah pgunaan bhsa ak x se'sweet' compare dgn geng yg lain,,bkn pe,nt ak kaku nk berblog sb ak dlu spm bm xbrp nk pass neh,hehehe.memandangkan mak usrah ak dh mula bising tya bila ko nk post ni i'll try my best laa,haha(1st tym ni weh nk tlis blog)

there is a joke..

Fred and Mabel were both patients in a mental hospital.1 day,as they both walked beside the swimming pool,Mabel jumped into the deep end n sank 2 the bottom.Without a thought 4 his own safety,Fred jumped in after her,brought her 2 the surface,hauled her out n saved her.

The next day happened 2 be Fred's annual review.He was brought b4 the hospital board,where the director told him, "
Fred,i hv some good news n bad news :the good is that,in light of ur heroic act yesterday,we consider u sane n u can be released from this home back into society.the bad news is,i'm afraid that Mabel,the patient u saved,shortly afterwards hung herself in the bathroom with the belt from her bathrobe.i'm sori but she's dead."

she didn't hang herself," Fred replied, "i put her there 2 dry''.

the end. (
life is an open secret)

-okes.ape yg ak nk kongsi adalah lain org lain dia pnya perspektif nya psal sumthin kan.mcm Fred 2,dia hang Marbel sb dia pk 2 slh 1 cr nk keringkan Marbel la kan slain drpd bg kalu dr perspektif ak,of cos la ak pk Marbel nk bnuh diri mcm doc 2 pk.

-phm?klu xphm ak bg lg 1 cth yg lg simple. cth ni antara ak n kwn ak si A(bkn nm sbenar).sape tgok BOF?(boys over flower).mst korg sume layan kan.tipo la xlayan A ckp Ji Hoo 2 ensem la,nmpk cool la, tp bg ak xpon,hahaha.nmpk biasa je,Jun Pyo lg macho kot,kakakaka. dah2,kan nmpk bgaimn berbezanya perspektif kami kan.

knapa kita sume berbeza?
yela.kalu sume sama xde colourful la kan idup ni.klu sume org suka kaler pink,the whole world would like nt cite Men in Black kna tkar jd Men in Pink(weirdo!) part siyes.sbenarnya bila mpunyai pandangan yg berbeza-beza,kita sbenarnya bole bertukar-tukar idea n belajar benda yg's all about 2 know n learn about each other.

Allah says; (
o mankind!we hv crated u from a male n a female,n made u into nations n tribes,dat u may know 1 another.Verily,the most honorable of u with Allah is that (believer) who has piety.Verily,Allah is All-Knowing,All-Aware)-Al Hujurat 49:3

last but not least,kalu kita xtau kita kna tya org k (reminder utk diri sdiri).malu bertanya,xdapek la jwpn.

Allah says: (
so ask the people of the Reminder if u don not know)-Al Anbiyaa' 21:43

*klu ad information yg slh or sumthin else yg xbest,suarakan k (ku hanya insan yg naif,huu)
yg baik itu dtg nya drpd Allah S.W.T n yg kurang itu drpd kelemahan ak sdiri.

P/S-tiada sbrg hiasan sb ak xpandai nk upload,hahaha.

y is it so?

Dgn nama Allah,Ar Rahman, Ar Rahim..

>>disedut dan diadaptasi dr buku 'agar bidadari cemburu padamu' by salim a.fillah

(bunch of thnxx to our mama2 usrah yg hadiahkn buku ni kt kami v(n_n)v)

"para ikhwan lebih sulit menahan pandangan atas akhwat yg bjilbab labuh drpd mereka yg pakaiannya belum beres secara syar'i, itu kerana dlm diri mereka telah tertanam tanggapan bahawa calon isteri mereka kelak adalah seperti itu. mereka melakukan identifikasi calon isteri, sehingga yg bjilbab lengkap itu begitu menarik bagi mereka.

tetapi menurut seorang akh yg suatu ketika bcerita kpd sy dlm pjalanan pulang dr Klaten(indon), sebenarnya akhwat bjilbab lengkap itu menarik bagi sesiapa saja.bagaimana menurut anda?

kata beliau,akhwat tidak hanya mpersona bg golongan yg ingin mcari calon isteri shj, mereka sjujurnya menarik+mpersona bg semua lelaki2 normal, siapa pun dia (i think as perempuan pn kite sejuk hati tgk kwn2 yg bpakaian lengkap as muslimah,aint we?he3)

bedanya,para ikwan itu punya harapan (calon isteri), sedangkan yg selain drpd mereka sudah putus harapan utk bisa bsanding dgn akhwat yg bjilbab sempurna (harapan tu bleh jd ade klo berubah kn?he) tetapi sekali lg, mereka tetap 'menyejukkan mata' bagi sesiapa shj.. (Islam tu agama fitrah, ape yg diencourage oleh Islam sume menyenangkan manusia sbnrny~shud b pleasure for us to covering aurat,not as it is one of rule dat we must obey,ryte? =))

firmanNya: "....yg demikian itu supaya mereka lebih mudah utk dikenal, kerananya mereka tidak diganggu.." (Al Ahzab:59)

subhanAllah, sekali lg sy terpegun, takjub merasainya..ketika Allah menjanjikan perlindungan, maka Dialah Maha Pelindung. dia memutus harapan lelaki2 asing dr para wanita yg mengulurkan jilbabnya ke seluruh tubuh mereka. mereka, tetap mpersona, bukan bagi mereka yg xbisa menahan diri.."

[so,ape yg sy dpt dr petikan buku ni, Allah Maha Memelihara (Al Muhaimin), Maha Pelindung (Al Hafidz) dan Maha Mengetahui (Al 'Alim) ..Allah menciptakan manusia (kite), of kos+no doubt Allah amat sgt tahu apa yg terbaik utk kite..menutup aurat tu mcm shield utk avoid 'bendasing2' yg bahaya around us (for muslimah), not as burden..semoga kite istiqamah di jalanNya+muhasabah selalu..mohon doa kalian~ wAllahu'alam..]

ukuhuwah fillah abadan abada..

correct me if im wrong..d('_')b

Tuesday, April 14, 2009


"Wahai umat manusia!
Sesungguhnya Kami telah menciptakan kamu
dari lelaki dan perempuan,
dan Kami telah menjadikan kamu
pelbagai bangsa dan bersuku puak,
supaya kamu berkenal-kenalan
(dan beramah mesra antara satu dengan yang lain).
Sesungguhnya semulia-mulia kamu di sisi Allah ialah
orang yang lebih takwanya di antara kamu,
(bukan yang lebih keturunan atau bangsanya).
Sesungguhnya Allah Maha Mengetahui, lagi Maha Mendalam Pengetahuan-Nya
(akan keadaan dan amalan kamu)."
-Al-Hujurat, ayat 13-

Salam sejahtera ke atas rakan2 semua. ^_^
Sungguh cantikkan agama Islam? Islam is the way of life. Dari segala aspek kita diajar untuk berjaya dalam hidup di dunia dan di akhirat. Antaranya ialah untuk berjaya dalam menghargai dan menghormati budaya bangsa2 lain.

Jelas dari ayat Al-Quran di atas, kita dicipta berbilang-bilang kaum dan bangsa, supaya kita dapat berkenal-kenalan. Mengenali budaya sendiri dan bangsa lain. Perkara yang baik tentang budaya lain kita jadikan contoh manakala yang buruk kita letak jauh2. Terdapat pelbagai perkara yang menarik yang boleh didapati dalam setiap budaya.Contohnya Melayu, Cina dan India di negara kita, terdapat pelbagai perkara menarik tentang setiap bangsa2 ini. Unik dalam cara mereka tersendiri.

Mana boleh kata pasar malam tak laku,
bila kita ada gulai lemak, yong tau fu dan maruku...

Mana ada hari tak naik seri,
bila kita hias dengan kebarung, cheongsam dan sari...

Ayuhlah rakan2, kita merapatkan silaturrahim kita sesama agama, walau berlainan bangsa.Kalau dulu kaum Ansar dengan hati terbuka menerima dan menyambut kaum Muhajirin, mengapa kita tak boleh? Harta menjadi lebih berkat dikongsi bersama, makanan lebih lazat dimamah bersama.

Ingat ya wahai rakan2, kita diukur mengikut ketakwaan kita kepada Allah, bukannya diukur dari mana asal atau bangsa kita. Gunakanlah kepelbagaian bangsa dan budaya ini sebagai salah satu cara untuk kita meraih lebih banyak pahala, bukannya dosa. Janganlah kita terlalu membanggakan bangsa kita, memperolokkan pula bangsa lain, lupa bahawa kita sebenarnya adalah saudara seagama.

Ayuh berkenal-kenal dan beramal-amal... (^_^)

.....Majulah remaja untuk agama

Monday, April 13, 2009

ibu, mengapa kadang2 saye terdorong membuat perkara yang Tuhan x suke?


assalamualaykum wbt,
kehadapan geng biskut meri tersayang.. dan juge peminat2 biskut meri. hehe

saya nak share pasal buku yang comel ni. Ibu, benarkah Tuhan itu ada?

dalam buku ni banyak soklan2 yang mungkin anak2 akan tanya. dan mungkin kita jugak sendiri yang tertanya2. cube bayangkan kalau anak kite nnt tanye soklan ni nnt. "ibu, kenapa kadang2 saye terdorong membuat perkara yang Tuhan xsuke?"
mcm mane kite as ibu nak jwp kat anak2?

antara jawapannye ialah.. of cos la sebab nafsu dan syaitan yang nak kalahkan kite!

Dalam al-Quran ade sebut,
"Sesungguhnya nafsu manusia itu benar-benar menyuruh manusia melakukan perkara2 jahat.." [yusuf:53]

so, kite kene la cube sedaya upaya menahan diri dari ikut geng setan..

dlm buku ni jugak ada dikongsikan beberapa tips yang best utk lawan geng setan:

1. kita kena berusaha menjadi orang yang benar2 yakin kepada Allah dan yakin pada Hari Akhirat. kalau benar2 yakin Allah melihat semua gerak geri kita dan malaikat akan catit setiap amalan2 walaupun sebesar zarah taik gigi, nescaya kite takut nak buat benda yang Allah xsuka. senang je.. tiap2 kali nak buat satu benda xbaik tu.. ingat2 lah mcm ni.. Allah tgh tgk aku ni.. xmalu ke dgn Allah.. Allah dah bg aku mcm2 yang baik2.. Allah bagi aku mata.. aku nak tgk benda xelok, Allah bagi aku mulut.. aku nak ckp bnd xelok. mcm ni ke cara aku bersyukur? nnt sampai masa Allah tanya balik aku nak jwp ape..

2. kita kena bersabar mengerjakan perintah Allah. cube buat mutaba'ah amal, then try improve amalan2 harian kita.. biasanya, kalau konsisten buat sesuatu perkara tu 30 hari, insyaAllah boleh jd kebiasaan. Allah dah janjikan ganjaran yang besaaaaar utk hambanya yang taat ikut perintahNya. jd bersabarlah sikit.. kejap je hidup kat dunia ni

3. kita berusaha bersabar menahan diri daripada melakukan larangan Allah. ape lagi.. puasa lah

4. minta nasihat dan berbaik dengan orang yang dapat mengingatkan dgn cara yang baik (teringat biskut meri). kalau nak masuk syurga.. kena lah rapat dgn org2 yang sama matlamat jugak kan. supaya nnt kita selalu diperingatkan. Allah suka orang yang saling ingat mengingatkan antara satu sama lain. dlm surah al-asr "Demi masa, sesungguhnya manusia dalam kerugian. kecuali orang2 yang beriman dan beramal soleh. dan mereka pula saling berpesan dengan kebenaran, dan saling berpesan dengan kesabaran"
Ya Allah, jadikan kami terasuk mereka itu. Ameen

5. selalu lah berdoa supaya Allah lindungi kita daripada gangguan nafsu dan geng2 syaitan. doa yang paling mudah ialah membaca "a'uzubillahi minasy-syaitan nirrajim, aku berlindung kepada Allah daripada geng2 syaitan yang direjam"

pilihlah balasan baik untuk diri kita.. Allah maha adil, dunia hanyalah tempat ujian kepada manusia. pada hari Akhirat kelak, yang jahat tidak membawa pulang apa2 lagi kecuali dosa yang akan dibalas.

kita semua tahu, nafsu dan syaitan ni yg bertungkus lumus sesatkan kita, lupakan Hari Akhirat. tapi kita dah dianugerahkan akal, hati kecil dan tenaga yang mampu berusaha. dengan anugerah2 ini, kita mampu memilih sama ada nak ke kanan atau ke kiri. nak balasan yang baik atau yang buruk. nak ikut geng syaitan atau pon x.
ke.. kita yang xde akal? opss.. kita xcacat!

so pilih lah... sementara kat dunia kita diberi pilihan. kat akhirat.. sory.. its too late.. xde pilihan
the choice is in our hands

"maka Dia mengilhamkan kepadanya jalan kejahatan dan ketakwaannya, sungguh beruntung orang yang menyucikan jiwa itu, dan sungguh rugi orang yang mengotorinya" [asy-syams:8-10]

sedikit sebanyak pembedahan buku :)

yang mengejar hepi ending full barakah,